If your company is in the ugly middle of deciding return to the office plans…Good communication is more important than ever!
Publication 20, Issue 1
We’re back! Sort of, anyway. While some of us never left, many have spent the last 15 months in a WFH status. As offices open and we move on from our Zoom lives and workdays spent in workout shorts or joggers, we have to be focused on our management style once again and be ready to pivot! In today’s environment with some folks still in a WFH status, some just dipping in a few days a week and others coming back to their desks in the office fulltime, it seems like a lot to get your arms around.
Solid management and clear communication are the keys to stability, whatever the workplace. Give yourself credit! You have adapted and adopted over the past months out of necessity. Now there’s a new way to look at managing. It’s time to adapt to what’s happening now and adopt modified practices that will motivate your team to be productive and happy. So, let’s rally!
Being self aware is more important than ever! Knowing your communication preferences first will help you assess and interact with others more easily. When your people feel connected, work gets done, teams can power through and next generation ideas stay floating. The work environment will hum along.
Let’s be a little selfish and focus on you, the manager and how you will navigate through this next phase of reality. Here are some self awareness tips for you as managers:
Peacemaker – You may feel a bit off-balance as there will be less connection with some staff than others. Go easy on yourself; acknowledge that some of the personal aspects of working might be on hold or lost. Whether you’re virtual or physically present, be seen, greet folks and offer to be available.
Organizer – You will have to defer your need to micromanage. Don’t expect staff to pick up where they left off 15 months ago! Have some patience with yourself and others. Highlight new policies or expectations for your staff before you hit the ground running.
Revolutionary – You thrive on being flexible – but don’t rush the gate! While “today is like every other day” for you, it’s not that way for everyone! Give your teams the time to re-form and work out new norms. They know you support them. Give them some space.
Steamroller – You might be pondering – how will synergies rekindle? Or perhaps be a bit weary because collaborating on new ideas has been tricky. Create the vision for your team to have those creative interactions and get people involved wherever they may sit in your organization.
Please take care of yourself! While the clouds are lifting and things are looking up, we’ve been through a lot over the past 15 months. If you are steady and focused, you’ll be happier and your team will be engaged!
When was the last time, you did something for the first time… Seriously, go for it in 2019!
Publication 18, Issue 1
“Yeah, let yourself go, follow that feeling, maybe something new is what you’re needing . . .” I like Darius Rucker’s songs – the catchy lyrics always seem to have a personal message takeaway for me! I know, Organizers, even if trying something new isn’t in our DNA, sometimes the inspiration to take a new approach can come from an unexpected source – like a song lyric. Because real management development starts with you, take a few minutes to focus on your self-awareness.
I remember years ago being out with my niece, who now is a junior in college, and I was either trying to overmanage something or getting frustrated because my “plan” wasn’t working. She said, “Sometimes, Aunt Kathy, you just have to wing it!” Love you for that Sarah! As an Organizer, “winging it” isn’t my routine! Sarah’s were powerful words that hit me like a splash of cold water. I thought, “Was I stressing her out? Was it really something to be upset over?” I quickly turned it around (something not easy to do, but doable, if you get my drift) and we had a great time. I always have a great time with Sarah!
As managers, when was the last time you did something for the first time? Put your feelings aside, left those highlighters on the table, didn’t get agitated quickly with something and actually allowed others to weigh in on your idea, I mean really weigh in! Take a look…
Peacemakers – When was the last time you took something personally but didn’t address it? You don’t even have to talk about your feelings. Respectfully, calmly (the only way a Peacemaker can be) address the issue and ask/say, “I’d like to complete two items on the project,” or “When will your team be ready for my work?” Remember, unless you’re speaking with another Peacemaker, he/she is unlikely to take something personally – so try it!
Organizers – When was the last time you didn’t worry about something getting done or sent an email to staff with a million questions? Stop! You might be “freaking out” your staff unnecessarily and they might think you don’t trust them, they aren’t working fast enough or they aren’t competent. Release the stress for everyone and ask/say, “Appreciate your efforts,” or “You are the expert; let me know the timeline.” The sky isn’t going to fall in!
Revolutionaries – When was the last time you didn’t pull a fire alarm (not literally) at work? Revolutionaries are good at rallying their teams on the fly and the team accepts it. But that style doesn’t resonate with everyone. Some staff likes to engage others, think or get creative before they spring into action. Perhaps ask/say, “How can we help?” or “What are your three main points?” Not everything is life or death at work unless you’re a first responder!
Steamrollers – When was the last time you didn’t over-think something or look for a deeper meaning? I know, inconceivable! Not everything has to be a “first-time ever” endeavor. Yes, that’s how breakthroughs happen in medicine – but sometimes the issues are basic. Release the judgment that “everyone has to be smart on everything” and ask/say, “Who can help you?” or “How much time will this take?” You’ll receive support and commitment upfront!
See how new relationships, ways of doing things, friendships and ideas will appear if you have the courage to try a new management communication style. Who knows, you may even like it! Any self-awareness and shift in a behavior takes heart, time, guts, and a strong will. My challenge to you in 2019 is to go for it. You’ll never know how game-changing it will be unless you take those next steps. And as the song continues:
“Yeah, let yourself go, follow that feeling
Maybe something new is what you’re needing
Like a real life, let your hair down, feel alive”
Happy Managing! Let me know how you are doing!
Are you experiencing high turnover in your department? Could it be because of you? Follow a new fall management look!
Publication 17, Issue 2
Been surprised lately by having one of your high performers quit? Have multiple people left one department and blamed the mass exodus on poor management? It’s stressful to lose talent and hard to think it’s your fault, as the manager. What can you do? Look in the mirror and ask the question, “I own this, so what could I have done differently?” Meet with your HR business partner to debrief the exit interviews. Put on your listening ears no matter how hard it is to hear! Change starts at the top with you, the manager.
More than 50% of the time when people leave their organizations it’s because of their manager: they feel undervalued, their role is ill-defined, they can’t get along with him/her or they don’t feel inspired. “Contact sport” company cultures, lousy pay and unbearable commutes are high on the lists too – but they don’t rise above the importance of the working relationship with the manager. You would be amazed what people endure when they have a good connection with their manager!
First, be self-aware. Be honest in your assessment of your management style. Do you engage people every day? Articulate staff roles and responsibilities clearly early on? Encourage staff to have “fun” or set a path forward so staff sees how their contributions align to the company’s mission? If the answer to these self-reflections is “No,” consider how to change your style and try on that new look this fall. Be confident in your new style! Second, change up how you communicate with your team! A fresh management approach in this new season may boost morale on your team.
Want to be included, like to be acknowledged and want to feel a connection with people. They like frequent communication to engender trust, build relationships and keep things in balance. Be polite, make good eye contact when you’re chatting and check-in throughout the day. Greetings are important. Say hello, good morning or good-bye. It’s not going to take hours out of your day! Include them in meetings and give them a meaningful role!
Are motivated by getting things done efficiently and early! Schedules, timelines, processes, and traditions are the Organizer’s bread and butter! They need to have things defined clearly, keep on a schedule and have solid plans. If something goes sideways, the Organizer is able to regroup quickly! They are reliable, so don’t hover or ask a lot of questions. The details are important, and the plan needs to be outlined from the start to the finish line!
Are flexible, live in the moment, see policies and procedures as impediments to getting things done. Action-oriented and gregarious, they are fun to be with, but it can be hard to corral that energy into a timely and measurable outcome! Don’t use “preambles” in your communication – give them some clues to get the ball rolling and leave the checklists and SOPs in your desk drawer! Let them put the team together, set the course and run as fast as they can!
Value education, intellect and competence. They are creative and could fill ballrooms with thousands of ideas that have meaning and purpose. They like to respond to management inquiries with complex answers and tell stories. Steamrollers like to offer advice and opinions; they believe they rarely make mistakes and like implementations to be flawless! Keep them in the forefront of your organization transformations. Give them something new to work on!
I know it’s all about making money and pumping out the work – but it’s more than that. The people matter too. I believe that managers’ self-awareness skills need a makeover from time to time. If your staff’s motivations and needs are not being met by you, the manager, they may quit for greener pastures. Safeguard yourself and your organization from those costly events and use the words and actions to keep your staff happy and productive at work.
Really assess your management style. The kind of interaction you prefer won’t work with every member of your team. As a manager, it’s on you to adapt your communication style to each individual. We know what motivates the Playground Personalities to feel connected at work. Use those motivations as a foundation, try on a new look and build that working relationship with your staff. They may think twice before they leave!
R-E-S-P-E-C-T “Find out what it means to me” first, then what it means to others
Publication 17, Issue 1
August 16 is special to me – it’s my birthday. But I have a heavy heart because we lost two cultural icons on that day – The King of Rock and Roll and more recently, the Queen of Soul! Aretha impacted my life in many ways and she made it into Oops! I’m The Manager! “The Complexity of Respect” was the hardest chapter to write, though, because respect means different things to different people.
The Queen might thunder, “R-E-S-P-E-C-T, find out what it means to me!” but in the workplace, it’s about finding out what it means for one and all. In the heat of the moment it’s easy to blurt out the first thought that comes to mind. A verbal shot from the hip can take many forms, marginalizing someone’s feelings, their quality of work or self-worth; or thoughtless words can be just plain insulting. Your own stress level will be reduced if you master a general understanding of what respect means to each of the Playground Personalities. Simple, right?! Read on…
Like it when you focus on them – listening with undivided attention, responding to their needs and making them feel that you as the manager are taking their concerns to heart. Peacemakers know that paying attention to others, always being enthusiastic, smiling, and making people feel important – through verbal and non-verbal cues – are the cornerstones of respect. Spending the time to figure out the person, knowing their likes and dislikes, recharges their batteries and engages them quickly. Tip: Offer to work collaboratively, brainstorm ideas and get people involved along the way!
Feel respected when their innate sense of satisfaction with getting things done is fulfilled. Organizers don’t need personal recognition. Show them respect by recognizing that the task or the accomplishment is complete – no pats on the back required! Simply state you are happy that the work is done and possibly add “great job” for good measure. The old adage “give work to busy people” rings true for Organizers, but they like to be tasked with projects – work that is logical and understandable – not busy work or loose conceptual visions. Tip: Pile on work with specific deadlines and tasks, and acknowledge completion of the job.
Appreciate knowing that they can be counted on to handle “the stuff that no one else wants to handle.” They don’t like to be micro-managed or hovered over to make sure they’re working. To them, respect is taking people at face value – understanding how they’re wired, crediting them for working hard and correcting a situation! Revolutionaries don’t ask people to “ride along” unless they are respected to begin with. Tip: Allow them to work on the impossible and let them take the “twists and turns” to get to an end!
Need to know that those whom they respect are also respected by others – they don’t suffer fools gladly. This is very important when they are building teams and trying to recruit the “best and the brightest.” They want to be known for putting together the perfect “A Team!” “Bling” resonates with the Steamroller: Visible reflections of professional status – degrees, plaques, certifications – are valued evidence of knowledge and experience. These nods to credibility earn their respect. A Steamroller must respect the person who is offering the suggestion or it won’t be well received. Tip: Tread lightly with giving advice and ask for their opinions.
Respect begins with you as the manager. Learning to treat each other with respect by choosing your words to suit the individual styles of your team members helps keep all the personalities in check and eliminates costly problems that might fester for years. If respect is absent in the workplace, it’s going to be a long day for both you and your staff. The complexities of gaining, showing and maintaining respect become apparent when you look at each of the Playground Personalities – but keep it simple!
When managing folks, know how each Playground Personality defines respect and adjust your communication to suit the listener. You know how I like to keep things real and easy to recall: remember, with R-E-S-P-E-C-T, take the time to “Find out what it means to you…and others.”
It’s a Matter of Style! Look Beyond Technical Competence When Recruiting in Today’s Market
Publication 16, Issue 3
How many times in your career have you heard or said the words, “This employee just isn’t the right fit.” Organizations spend a lot of money recruiting, hiring and training staff to be successful. Unless you hire the right person from the “get-go” you could be wasting a lot of time and effort onboarding and training someone who may not be a good fit for your organization. Traditional interviews were meant to screen candidates who could type 60 words per minute, write Java code or conduct in-depth science experiments. If they passed the technical hurdles, they were hired.
Today, teamwork and collaboration are understood to be integral to business success. Assessing technical competence alone just doesn’t cut it. Managers who have changed the way they interview have had greater success in finding that candidate who is technically competent and whose style complements or “fits” the organization’s culture. Here’s my formula for success:
technical skills + candidate’s style + match to company culture = successful candidate
And, here’s how to use it!
The need for strong technical skills is a given, so let’s talk about personality style and culture. Keep my Playground Personalities in mind as you listen and observe candidates. For example:
Peacemakers – may preface remarks with “I feel,” and will reference people and the importance of working relationships in their responses. Peacemakers will have great eye contact! They can answer this question with ease: Give me an example of how you and your staff have celebrated success in the past. What was the occasion? So if your company focuses on customer service and everything that goes along with it, pay extra attention to these responses.
Organizers – may preface responses with “I think,” and will reference bullet points or short phrases. Their answers will be clear and precise. Organizers will bring extra copies of their resume to the interview to be sure the interviewer has the latest version! Here’s a question they will be able to answer, spot on: Tell me about a project that called on your organizational skills. What happened? Organizers usually thrive in companies that specialize in rigor around protocols and/or processes.
Revolutionaries – will be brief, to the point, and use action-packed language in responses. It’s about “turning on a dime” at work and keeping things moving on a project. Revolutionaries may grow more fidgety as the number of questions mounts! So don’t torture them. Get out in front of their fidgeting and ask: What do you do when priorities change quickly? Give me one example of when this happened. Revolutionaries make great emergency room staffers, firefighters and police officers. They’re at their best in a career when the next move is a surprise!
Steamrollers – may speak in philosophical terms about beliefs or opinions. Steamrollers tend to be “big picture” thinkers who may not offer a lot of detail. A Steamroller may draw a picture or diagram during the interview! Don’t kill their spirit by asking “ordinary” questions. After all they’re super-smart, so challenge their thinking with this question: Give me an example of how you have been creative with a process improvement project when no one else could figure it out. Steamrollers stand out in organizations where creativity produces value to the organization and its clientele.
Be honest in your assessment of your company’s culture. Whether it’s friendly, bureaucratic, always in motion or entrepreneurial – own it! This shouldn’t be a value judgment, but an analysis that will help you avoid a mismatch in the hiring process. Get it right and there is a greater likelihood that the manager and the new hire will be happy and productive at work.
Remember this, we all want a candidate to have that machine-like work ethic, but assessing a candidate on workload alone might be shortsighted. Using my Playground Personalities and combining them with my “hiring formula for success,” will make interviewing easier and save you time and money so you hire the right person from the “get-go!”
Offering help to someone could end up in a battle? Who knew? Know who you are talking to before you offer to help!
Publication 16, Issue 2
Have you ever offered to help a colleague and had an unexpectedly lukewarm reaction? Maybe received a strange look or a negative response? While an offer to help is usually well intentioned, in many cases it can fall flat. I know that sounds odd, but not everyone receives the offer of help in the same way. Time and time again, the managers I work with struggle with this basic interaction. I’m here to tell you it’s not so basic, but if you think up front about whom you are engaging, the dialogue becomes easier.
Do you guys remember when Yoplait® first introduced the Go-GURT® Yogurt? The Go-GURT made it fun for kids to eat yogurt. My sister-in-law bought Go-GURT sticks for her children all the time! They came in a long tube with a “tear here” symbol on the top, but that was a joke. The only way you could open the thing was if you used a scissor. I was with my youngest niece one day and she asked for one. Knowing it was impossible for my then two-year-old niece to open it on her own, I proceeded to get the scissor from a drawer, to which she responded, annoyed, I might add, “No Kack, I can do it.” I responded “Okay” and continued with my work. My niece walked around the kitchen four or five times before she finally gave up and asked, “Can you help me?” I quietly snipped off the top and handed it to her. She walked away happy and I didn’t say, “I told you so!” Go-GURT is still on the market today. Wonder if they’re easier to open!?
Here’s how the Playground Personalities© receive the offer of help and some tips on how managers can start their communications to get the best response:
Peacemakers – graciously. They will have feelings that people might think they can’t handle something. They might even take it personally and not accept your offer to help. Peacemakers naturally offer to help others at the risk of sacrificing their own needs; but they need to work on receiving help. Approach a Peacemaker with genuineness and say, “I would be happy to help. Let me know what I can do for you?”
Organizers – negatively. They don’t want anyone to “mess” with their processes and order. They’d rather suffer with an over-extended workload than accept someone’s offer to help. They think, “I don’t like rework and if you help me, I’m only going to have to redo it anyway!” Stay out of the line of fire with an Organizer and offer this: “Once you get your checklist finalized, assign me a task.”
Revolutionaries – keenly. They are so good at receiving help they can get people to do their work for them! Revolutionaries like it when someone volunteers to do their work, hah! They’re good at it too. They sit back and watch people spin around with their unwieldy workloads. They figure if someone needs help, he’ll ask for it! So for the Revolutionary, “Give me a holler if you need something from me,” usually works!
Steamrollers – cautiously. They ask themselves, “Why would I need help from you? Do you think I’m not smart enough to do this on my own?” Steamrollers usually resist any offer of help. It’s not worth getting into an intellectual battle with them. So choose your words wisely and stand back for their potential roar! Remember, it is important for Steamrollers to know that you respect their competence and intellect. Try, “You are the expert, so let me know how I can help.” Usually works like a charm!
Well, I’m here to tell you that my 11th grade niece today, who is smart, athletic, independent, and beautiful, rarely asks for help. And, if she does, she really wants it! Funny how that works! As managers, it’s a part of our responsibility to make sure our staff have the appropriate resources to do their jobs. So sometimes offering to help is a reasonable strategy, but remember, it can be a slippery slope. If you want to make an offer to help, just think about who you’re communicating with and go for it! While no one may take you up on your offer, your interactions will be smoother and you’ll get fewer negative responses!
What is your intention behind sending an email? Spoiler alert – many times it’s not received in the spirit in which it was sent!
Publication 16, Issue 1
Back in the day, good old fashioned phone calls gave you a chance to make small talk, give one or two important points, have a laugh or kick around ideas with a colleague or contact. Ah, the good old days when you actually had a chance to have a conversation! Times have changed. Now messengers send these greeting-less, demanding, emoji-populated, dense messages to people who may get your point, but are just as likely to become offended, confused, charged up or disengaged. And we wonder why as managers we spend countless hours unscrambling miscommunication, unable to get our work done! Really?
I’m sure there were miscommunications on phone calls too – but at least you had a chance to have a dialogue. As managers we’re on a collision course with miscommunication if we don’t clean up our acts – myself included! How can we bring the sociability of old-style phone call conversations to the words we write in haste in our emails and texts? Written conversations where you say “hello,” give clear instructions; perhaps raise those meaty issues with humor? It’s easy – know whom you are writing to before you type that message. Applying the Playground Personalities to your written word will be a game-changer. It’s super easy!
Engaging the Peacemaker up front is critical. Saying “Dear” or “Hello” is a must. Remember, relationships matter to Peacemakers, so starting without a greeting really demotivates them. Peacemakers want to help, feel appreciated, and sometimes take on a little more than they should – so don’t overload them or take advantage of their good nature. The words in your messaging must be carefully selected before you hit the send button! Short, curt, cold emails will not get you the response you’re looking for. Simply say, “Hope this email finds you well,” and you’ve got their attention!
Being clear, concise and to the point is all the Organizer wants. Your messages need to include short, bulleted information with direct action verbs. For example, “Put the agenda together for Monday’s meeting by Friday at 2pm.” “Establish a timeline for the project milestones by XYZ date.” Sound easy? Well, be careful when communicating due dates or deadlines with Organizers. They work at break-neck speed to get things done, so if your deadlines are artificial, over time you will erode the respect of the Organizer and there won’t be a rush to get the work done.
Use brief communication for the Revolutionary – no “song and dance”! Using the subject line of the email to grab the reader is super-noticeable and eye-catching! If the Revolutionary spots a subject line with a zippy word or a “curious question” he or she is more apt to open that email: “Got numbers?” or “On fire!” or my all-time favorite – “HELP!!!”. To ensure the Revolutionary staffer opens (and reads) your email, other tactics include being directive, “real,” and keeping the body of your messages to ten words or less. For example, “Need inputs for Jan meeting by 2 today otherwise…no go!”
Be expert-like and ask Steamrollers for their opinions and ideas up front, otherwise why would you waste their time sending them an email? Acknowledge that they are the subject-matter experts. Messages have to be meaningful and purposeful. They don’t have to be long, but they have to explain the background of an issue and how the Steamroller’s expertise fits in moving forward. Details aren’t important to the Steamroller. The details will come later. It’s okay to explain the big picture, but keep it brief and describe the Steamroller’s involvement in the project.
Sending messages right the first time, where the focus is on preventing miscommunication, is one secret to being a happy and productive manager. It’s far better than having to fix things after they’re broken. So next time, before you launch into your “to do” list tirade or soliloquy email messaging – think about the intention behind sending the message, think about what you want someone to do or know by sending the email, and of course, know what’s going to motivate the recipient into action!
End of the year wrap up or is it? Save yourselves and your staff!
Publication 15, Issue 6
It’s that time of year when you take stock of all the things you did and all the things you wished you’d done but didn’t – and beat yourself up about those things you missed, right? Well, most of us roll that way! And for those who do, here’s some advice: don’t beat yourself up about the things you didn’t do, and think twice about putting it in high gear to crank through what’s left on your to-do list! Instead, acknowledge and validate all of the things you have accomplished, prioritize what’s left and decide if any are worth rolling over into next year!
As an Organizer, I spend more time lamenting the things I didn’t do rather than basking in the glory of all the things I have done. I’m committed to changing it up and I’ve told myself this year will be different. I plan to take stock of my accomplishments and reflect on how I plan to close out the year – and yes, maybe even sneak in one extra thing if I’m able! But that’s just me; I’m not managing a staff these days!
So managers, your staff takes their direction from you. If you’re freaking out because December is around the corner and there are 10 things you wanted done before year-end – if you start to bark out orders, frown when granting PTO or start to sound like Scrooge – stop and catch yourself! Here’s how the Playground Personalities reveal themselves when wrapping up year-end work under stress:
Peacemaker Managers – send early morning emails with apologies first, and unreasonable tasks second!
Organizer Managers – break a sweat over all the to-do lists they’ve accumulated and send emails with four “to do” attachments!
Revolutionary Managers – subscribe to the “save it up” strategy, wait until the last minute and pull the fire alarm!
Steamroller Managers – drop anchor in the middle of the water, change their minds about what’s important to focus on by year-end and begin to pile on the work!
Each of these styles creates angst, anxiety and not such a kindly response from staff, especially around the holidays. If you want to “press on” until December 31st or if your company is one that gears up at year-end because your clients do and staff is scheduled to work throughout the last two weeks in December – not a problem! Here are some management tips to keep your staff happy and productive around the holiday season when work is increasing instead of dwindling. When working with:
Peacemakers – ask for volunteers, acknowledge the staff and thank them!
Organizers – assign projects to staff with clear deliverables and due dates!
Revolutionaries – don’t make the schedules too tight, give breaks and celebrate!
Steamrollers – call a huddle meeting, explain the big push of work and ask the staff to brainstorm how to get it done!
If you don’t consider the right approach to your staff, you may run into some of these responses:
Peacemakers – will give their bosses a pass, try to accommodate all of their requests and will miss the mark!
Organizers – will demand clarification of dueling to-do lists to know what jobs will come off and be replaced by new ones!
Revolutionaries – will sit back and watch their bosses’ heads spin and wait until the last minute before they spring into action and work!
Steamrollers – will wait for an informed reply to “Why the last minute rushes?” And, if they don’t get one, they’ll continue to wait!
Consider using some of these communication suggestions and ideas if you have an end-of-year push looming at work. Let me know how they pan out!
Politics? Yikes! Let’s talk about politics – at work!
Publication 15, Issue 5
I live outside of Washington, DC. Here it seems we can’t escape politics, especially in an election year. TV, blogs, radio…politics is unavoidable. So I figured I’d write about it too!
Aristotle noted two thousand years ago that man is a political animal – that is to say we all engage in interactions that affect our own status in relation to others. So it doesn’t matter which side of the aisle you sit on – we are surrounded by politics even, and perhaps especially, in the workplace. In some companies you can feel the competition as soon as you walk into the building; in other companies it’s pretty hidden; and in others, politics comes into play largely during stressful times – rough economies, downsizing, loss of market share, etc.
What are some of the signs that politics is affecting the work of an organization?
- People are afraid to be open and honest – so there are a lot of water cooler conversations
- Policies are slanted one way or another – which leaves things open for interpretation
- Actions sometimes aren’t aligned with the words that people say – so an organization’s public face might not match its private face
- Core values might just be words articulated on a website – and not truly “lived by” day-to-day
And what further adds to organizational politics is the way staff reacts to it. In my opinion, there are two reasons why:
- Personal fear – people don’t want to get “chewed out” or have to “eat crow.”
- Professional fear – people don’t want to be written up or fired!
Organizations are collections of people, so inevitably there will be politics. We make employment choices based in part on our comfort level with the impact politics has on us. An organization’s political culture is bigger than you and me and sometimes it’s hard to navigate! It’s the degree to which politics rules an organization’s people, policies, actions and beliefs and the way we respond to it that makes all the difference.
Here’s how each Playground Personality navigates through politics:
Peacemakers – say “yes” to every one so they don’t disappoint others and themselves, but wind up doing just that!
Organizers – focus on policy development in an effort to minimize the gray lines and then get twisted up in all sorts of checklists that no one wants to follow!
Revolutionaries – keep moving forward no matter what’s going on; they shoot from the hip and are perceived by staff as “clueless” which couldn’t be further from the truth!
Steamrollers – have a laser beam focus and say the same two or three things, no matter where they are or whom they are talking to – it keeps them grounded!
We’re not going to judge whether organization politics is good or bad or if there’s a positive or ugly side to politics. You can draw your own conclusions. My message here is to be aware of office politics and more importantly to be aware as a manager about how you respond to or ignore political pressures so you keep staff morale positive and the work productive.